Past experiences have shaped our idea of love. There are 3 types of carnal love: 1. Natural Affection: This is the love between families. Even this love is perverted, in the times we're living in people will fight for the lives of animals yet abort their own baby in the womb. 2. Conditional love: This type of love is the love between friends. Conditional love is based upon conditions and says "If you buy me food, I'll buy you food.". 3. Sexual love: This love only lasts as long as the physical attraction does. None of these is the love of God!